Although I admit that I dislike the PvP elements of the game, that mechanic isn’t nearly as disappointing as the people who abuse it. Don’t blame the game. Blame your bad luck and the people who raided you. And get better.
Also, just saying, I may dislike the PvP mechanic but that’s just rooted in the fools who use it improperly. The kind who laugh when they kill others but cry when they are killed. Only hit as hard as you can be hit. :p